Tuesday, July 29, 2025

What We Don’t See

What We Don’t See

July 29, 2025 – Tuesday
“Be kind to people and don’t judge, for you do not know what demons they carry and what battles they are fighting.” ~ Vashti Quiroz-Vega
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Most mornings, I’m up by 4 a.m.

While most folks I know are just getting settled in for the night, I’m out chasing the day’s first light. I’ve been photographing the sunrise every morning for the past 15 years, and if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: the sun won’t wait. If I want to catch it, I have to show up.

 

This morning, I was back at The Point, walking the fishing pier before dawn. About halfway down, I noticed a man sitting alone on one of the benches. Just sitting quietly, staring out over the water. I’m pretty sure he slept there last night — maybe hoping the breeze off the water would keep him cool.

I don’t mean to sound paranoid but coming across someone out there that early makes me a little uneasy. Still, I spoke to him as I passed. He answered softly — just above a whisper.

Later, on my way back, I saw only his feet sticking out, his bicycle parked nearby, every bit of his life strapped to it. No name. No face. Just a quiet presence.

And a quiet reminder:

The line between “us” and “them” is thinner than we like to admit.

I’ve been guilty of judging too quickly — I think most of us have. It’s easier sometimes to look away, to shrug it off, to convince ourselves that people bring trouble on themselves. But the truth is, we don’t know what battles someone’s fighting.

We see the surface.

What we don’t see is the weight they carry.


 

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